Dana S.:do you please know where I might be able to
find that info re:NY law allows for 3x the
money kept?
Here's a summary of NYC Security Deposit law:
http://www.housingnyc....
Note that the sources are from the NYC Rent Stabilization Code which you can look up at:
http://www.tenant.net/...
Additional resources include the NY landlord tenant statute. Note Section 234 which may give you the possibility of recovering attorney fees:
http://codes.lp.findla...
And here's the state law regarding security deposits:
http://codes.lp.findla...
I agree with Drew about sending her a copy of the applicable statute or code.
But I would also suggest completing the Florida small claims complaint form for the county where she lives, attach it to your demand letter, and give her a deadline date to pay or be sued.
Don't bluff.
If you threaten to sue and you don't sue if she doesn't pay, you'll never see your money again.