This is a stupid and complicated story. I need some help/advice to think it through.
I was on my way to tutor yesterday morning when a truck rear-ended my car at a red light. The visible damage to both bumpers was minimal, but it was a good "whump," and my neck and back are sore.
The driver was extremely apologetic and begged me not to call the police because he was unlicensed. I called them anyway, but they said if the damage was minimal, we could take care of it between ourselves. This despite us being in view of the local police barracks.
The driver was driving his employer's truck on the way to get coffee at the deli. I didn't feel like ruining his life over a fender bender (my guess is he's an undocumented worker), so I agreed to take his employer's info instead. I only have his first name. I did get photos of the registration, insurance card (New York State), and position of the cars at the light, as well as what our bumpers looked like.
Also, a friend of mine happened to drive by and came over to make sure I was okay. If necessary, I'm sure I could count on him as a witness.
I reported the accident to their insurance, which happens to be mine as well, which is probably one reason why they're making this more difficult.
The two bad things I'm facing now are:
1) There is a $200 deductible on medical expenses. I don't feel like I should have to pay anything for this!!
2) Now they're telling me they might not pay ANYTHING because I was on my way to work and it should be under workers' compensation (which I don't have). I pay almost twice as much for my policy because I'm self employed, so whaaaat? I pay more, but any accident I have while on my way to work won't be covered??
Getting the phone number of the car owners has been impossible. I could go to the address listed on the registration, but that feels extreme to me. I feel like they should pay, though.
I'd rather not have to go to lawyers for this, but this stupid little incident is blowing up, and I might have to.