Neighbor won't leave us alone

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Latest post 08-17-2010 10:19 PM by Rocktosh. 3 replies.
  • 08-17-2010 4:51 PM

    • Igmu89
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    Neighbor won't leave us alone

    I don't know if this is the right section of these forums, so sorry if it's not and thank you in advance! I'm sorry if this is long but I need to have someone understand the gravity of the situation.

    We moved into our house a few years ago and were immediately confronted by our neighbor about our dogs barking at him. I invited him over to meet them, so they would stop, and in the meantime we moved their "area" around the back of our house to make it better.

    We were eventually going to put up a privacy fence, but we'd just bought a major money pit and we were VERY broke. So that was the best we could do and explained to him if it continued to bother him to let us know - but coming and meeting them would be the best solution. He never did.

    He then called and accused my son of stealing and breaking into his garage when they were gone on vacation. - then he CONFRONTED my son - alone (and he was 8) and threatened to call the police on him "the next time it happened" Which was ridiculous - we live on acreage and my son was terrified to go beyond our front porch alone. - not that I let him anyway.

    I would find 3 or 4 missed called on our caller ID from his house, and when I'd call back he said he was calling the dogs to make them quiet. (??) IT's voicemail, not like they can HEAR the thing.

    We stopped talking to them after that. (Him, Her and 3 kids) Then a horrible thing happened and our dogs got out and chased his horse. We apologized profusely and said it would never happen again. It didn't

    We had a windstorm and some of our shed came apart and blew onto his property. I came home to find it piled up in our driveway. Fine. it was ours, but...whatever.

    In another windstorm I caught him stealing a bin off my property by leaning over the fence and taking it. I confronted him about it and he gave it back - lamely making the excuse he was "keeping it for us"

    A few months later we go on vacation, and the man taking care of our house calls us to tell us the dogs are missing and that the gate had been vandalized to allow them to escape.

    One dog came home shot and beaten, the other was bagged up, collar removed and placed in a plastic trash bag and dumped in the river.

    Guess who WE thought it was?

    We asked our other neighbors if they had heard or seen anything unusual - especially on our property, and told them what happened.

    She being like me was mortified and was worried about her own animals. After all she, along with me had several cats go missing. I found one at the humane society.

    So one day he lets of some explosion, and sends the other neighbor into the dirt on her back (and she's an elderly lady) by way of her horse running her over. She yelled and screamed and called the police (in vision granny clampett) and gave him the what for - including our suspicions of our dog going missing - and that he was possibly the culprit.

    Well that opened up Pandora's box.

    Ever since this man has stopped at NOTHING to make our lives miserable. He lies to the police, INCESSANTLY..... If something is wrong on his property - he calls the police and tells them it's us. He tells them we come in the middle of the night and turn on his headlights on his vehicle and leaves the blinker on, on his tractor. He says my older son (because he's a teenager) is a criminal, (says he's seen the arrest record - something of which my son does NOT have...I don't get this guy - he even lies to US when we know it's not true.....)  says my son has taken his fence apart, shot his headlights out with a bb gun, (something we don't even own - except a little red ryder, that would barely pierce your skin because my son left it in the rain and it's all rusted out) and bashed in his mailbox. We shoot at hi horses and He even screamed at us he had pictures of all this - but has never produced them to us or any authority. His new accusation was that my older son was "driving around our property wildly, honking the horn and screaming obscenities at him"  He also drives up and down the valley and tells everyone that we're "bad people"

    He works for the city and when he spotted my Son at the park, called the police and told him he was setting off illegal fireworks.

    He called the division of wildlife and said we were trespassing and hunting illegally on the neighbors property (we weren't)

    He says we point guns at him, threaten him, hire helicopters to chase his horses, and god knows what else.

    He has cameras set up all over his place, yet we still somehow according to him, slip past and put dead mice in his horse tank.

    He also called our other neighbor's son an arsonist and told an organizer to some club they both belong to that he had threatened to burn it down and needed to be kicked out of it. He's called the Health department and said the other neighbor was dumping raw sewage on their property (when all they did was get their septic sucked out)

    I've found dozens of glass bottles and jars in my front pasture, and dead animals in my mailbox.

    I bought a security system and caught him on tape tossing out illegal fireworks to scare my dog. I've caught him spraying in 50 mph winds - a toxic weed and grass killer that killed a large section of my grass and the entire section on the south side of my driveway, and made my dog sick. HE even got the spray all over some workers that were building a garage on my property.

    He burns trash on windy days, so the smoke goes right into our house - I have that recorded dozens of times.

    I've caught him on tape trespassing and climbing the fence onto my property

    He went to court and filed a restraining order against our party we have every year, and lied that we had over 400 people, that we were shooting erratically while drunk and were drag racing on the road in front of our houses.

    I would love nothing more then to move away from this guy but the economy just won't allow it.

    We've installed an 8 foot fence between us and him for about 100 feet, and hope to finish it another 100 then probably the rest of the 1/4 mile be 6 foot. It'll take time, and I'm afraid he'll vandalize it.

    We plowed our driveway and he said we got snow on his fence on purpose, and even called and harrassed the poor guy doing the snow plowing - saying "we set him up to do it"

     

    He later posted signs Stating "no dumping" on the fence, and claimed the snow had eventually snapped a post and broke it, because it was piled too high on the fence (If that's the case every fence in the northern US would replace their fences every season)

    We had a bucket of oil in front of our shed and it ended up all over his fence, and shed. We called the police telling them we didn't know what happened, but we were afraid to talk to him because of all this. - well he put up another sign saying "thanks for spraying my shed with oil" like it was on purpose. We weren't even home so god knows if HE did it himself!

    No charges have been filed against this Yahoo - although I'm fairly certain the Department of Agriculture will be filing SOMETHING.

    I can't take much more of this. If we say black he says green polka dot with creme filling. I mean the guy has no problem lying to everyone - and his psycho wife backs him up! We're getting to the point now we have to constantly prove our Innocence instead of him proving us guilty! I had to give up my recorder to the police just so I could prove My son WASN'T driving around wildly around our house.....IT's insanity!

    I'm scared hes going to do something to my kids or my remaining dog and cat when we're gone. We've installed a security system, but it seems like a minimal thing. I see cars pull into his driveway with various people, and they stand in his drive way and gesture at our house, and shake their heads. We've never gotten a ticket - because we've never done anything!!!!

    What do we do now?

  • 08-17-2010 7:18 PM In reply to

    • LdiJ
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    Re: Neighbor won't leave us alone

    One thing that you do, for the safety of your animals, is that you board them when you are away, or have them stay at someone else's house.

    Other than that, all you can really do is have enough security cams so that you can provide whoever needs it proof that you didn't do whatever he accuses you of doing and make sure that you call the authorities if your cams show that he is engaging in trespass or illegal activity on your property.

  • 08-17-2010 9:46 PM In reply to

    to mother of 3 KY

    I deleted your response because it violated the Rules of this site, by which you agreed to abide upon registration, which state that messages are not to say "do this" and "do that".  You can give suggestions, but you cannot give directives.

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